27 February, 2014

Ignoring for no reason

Good day :)
Have you ever been ignored? I'm sure you have. For no reason? I hope not. But I also think that you have. Let me tell you about my problem. Few years ago, I've got to the high school, you know that. There was this guy, let's call him Jeremy. (I just thought about how pretty name that is.) He was the only one I knew from my elementary school. I had no idea that we're in the same school nor class. I approached him, said "hi" and he walked away. This continued for two and a half years, maybe three. I had no idea what I did since we haven't exchanged more than "hi" in all of our schooling together. He eventually turned around and started talking to me. We became, let's say, close friends. (We're no longer in touch that often.) But this is not the point. The point is why he hated me. What the hell did I do to him to avoid me for two years? Now I have the same problem in college. There is this, let's call him, Simon. I can see that he doesn't like me. And I can't think of one reason why not. I haven't done anything to him. Maybe he doesn't like my looks, because he hadn't got the chance to meet my personality. I'm really bothered by this. I don't need us to be inseparable or anything like that. I need us to be in good friendly relationship. Like I want it with everyone. This is not all in my head. He's doing everything Jeremy did. He is avoiding my look, stops talking when I come, never talk to me directly even if he's trying to ask me something... So, what's the problem? I really want to work this thing out but I don't want to ask him. I know I won't get anything done like that but I don't have the courage. I'm afraid of embarrassment (his and mine) and I'm afraid of the answer. Even though I know I didn't do anything, imagine if he told me something like: "I don't like you cause you look bad." Or: "I don't like you cause you give out this awful and unfriendly vibe." Or anything, for that matters. I don't know what to do with him.
So, if you have any good advice, tell me please.
Don't forget to comment and rate below :)
Bye :))
The worst part is not knowing...


  1. Anonymous1/3/14 19:28

    you should have call them douchebag#1 and douchebag#2..sometimes you rub the people wrong for no good reason and it seems to me that you have plenty of good friends and instead of wondering about these two you should focus your energy on being a good friend to those who deserve it (which i'm sure you already are). don't be nice and don't be mean, but i'm sure that they don't deserve your distress

  2. Well, I like Jeremy and Simon better :P
    I am focusing on my real friends of course, but you get me, right? How can I not be upset. It's the not knowing part that's killing me. They're idiots and don't know what they're missing :))